Remember your name

American educators and speech eloquence artists Dale Carnegie once said: "A person's name is his most familiar with the sweetest, most wonderful sound, most evident in the communication, the simplest and most important , the best way to get a good impression is to remember people's names. "　
Name of a person's symbol.Cartier watches Everyone has their own name. Everyone wants to be respect for others. So, remember people's names, in due course to easily call out the names of others, will feel respected each other, let each other feel good, would add to their good opinion, shortening the distance between each other, each of harmony relationships.　
Work and life, there have been many experiences, these experiences taught me that people remember and shouted the name is very important.　
Each year, more than classes taught in three to four classes, or even five classes, as a classroom teacher, faced with several hundred students, to remember their name really is not an easy task. So, occasionally, remember, not shouting the names of some students, the students are understanding, but their own. Will also forgive myself: so many, which remember! However, as can easily open mouth shouting the names of the students were shouting the names of the students, always cheerful.　
That year, there are superiors and peers outside the school to the school for lectures, I am "lucky" to be determined to be coached by.
Which the content of lessons about what has not think of coming. Just remember, when the teaching interaction, the face of the outpouring of students, standing in the middle seat of my students, so kind to point to a student, shouted their names correctly, let them out of their own ideas.
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Later in the observation and evaluation, now do not remember what their colleagues said, while a leader to say, but memorable. He laments that really something to remember so many students do not see a seating plan, the students shouted the names of mouth can not easy not easy. Shouted the students the teacher can accurately name the students is also a respected and encouraged.
Mental note, and in future work, students also pay attention to your heart to remember the name.
That day, a certain class to the invigilator (who a year ago, the lessons taught in this class).
Paper group made anymore, a girl is still doing something, not the desktop itself several papers sent to the back seat of the students, and students back waited a little anxiously.
I saw and went Nvhai before, smiled and said to her: "Qin Mei, but also Shengelanyao it?" She looked back to me a shy laugh, pass down the paper. Behind the two girls, very unexpected and very envious to say: "ah, Qin Mei, teachers know your name!" I am that the two girls laughed, and heart want to say I know you guys name it. However, I did not say it, because it is in the exam, do not want to disrupt the classroom quiet.　
On that occasion, in the 7 class self-study course, then they just took a course more than two months.
cheap watchesAs a student in the classroom with inappropriate behavior, I softly called his name, smiled, motioned him quiet. A boy next to gloat like this: "good side of their life, may you know the name of a teacher, see what you will 'make trouble array' blanket feed." (Well, the teacher knows your name, see you dare naughty.)
I smiled, then softly chanting the names of those who gloat: "Chen Meng, you say?"
He Stick your tongue: "ah? Teacher, you know, I am Chen Meng?"
"Of course!"
"What about me? My name is what?" "Me?" "Sir, me?" "The teacher certainly not yell my name." Side has a lot of male students raise their hands and a little naughty satisfactory end, it seems intends to make life difficult for what I do.
...... I shouted their names one by one, asked: "is not it? Teacher did not remember correctly, right?"
"Very true! Teacher, very kind of you, so give me face, thank you!" I call the name that was more than a dozen students, such as being praised as jovial.
Or smiled, waved his hand, signaled for silence, quiet back room, the students are busy their homework.
Often, on the road, on the campus, walking casually across the students shouted the names of the students always see the face of joy, themselves, have also obtained full of pleasure.　
Yesterday, even before school hours, I had entered the classroom.
In the classroom last,wholesale watches came the voice call upon me to name only call names, surnames province. I looked, was a male.
I am in front of the room, sweet answer cheerfully out: "hey!"
Students laughed. Male students who also criticized the "rude!"
"This student health and happiness so kind, who can not help to answer ah heard." I do not care about the students directly call my name, do not feel that his shouting is not polite, but that, perhaps, the students feel and I do not barriers, and I did not fear being that they are so easy to call my name. So, I'm happy.　
As a teacher, the students remember the name, of course, is conducive to teaching harmony, smooth. In social interaction, and remember people's names, is also very important. Help shorten the distance between each other, harmonious relationship between them.　　　
Last month, joined a small party.
20 graduated more than 20 years old students, from youth or their prime, to the present have passed middle age, middle-aged men and women. Some students have never seen over 20 years, there has never been linked.　　
Just meet, they ask: "Tell me, old school does not yet recognize? Remember the old school name?"
Of the hand, Caring for the name, cordial greetings.
"Nice. Remember.ed hardy Thank you!" Middle-aged, still remember many years later for the others their names and especially excited.
Some students, others shouted loudly and affectionately his name, but he did not remember which is which, rather looked very embarrassed, "Forsaken" mean, there are trace of disappointment and regret.
Experience again and again, again and again experience, intentions to remember someone's name, is respected by others, will also win the goodwill of others and respect their own. So, remember people's names, very important.　
Your name, I remember.
My name, do you remember?